So many people around the world watched Michael Phelps achieve his dream and make history in the Olympics this past week. When all was said and done, Bob Costas conducted an interview with Michael, and his mom, Debbie.
A few things they discussed were impressive, and speak volumes about a strength-based perspective, and the strength that comes with overcoming adverse situations. Michael also put into words quite eloquently the importance of the message parents send with their actions.
During the interview, it came up that Michael was diagnosed with ADHD as a child. Debbie said, "Kids with ADHD are creative and passionate about the things they love." Michael was fortunate to find his love early on. It can inspire us as parents to focus on our children’s strengths and to support them in finding what they love.
Michael also confirmed that he was bullied as a child. In his words, "It made me stronger." During the discussion, he said that his adverse experiences made him work harder. With the right support, a strong sense of self, belief and passion, children can benefit from the strength that comes from overcoming challenges.
The conversation turned to Michael’s mom and the fact that it was challenging as a single parent, and that she undoubtedly made sacrifices. Michael’s response was that as children you try to "model yourself off what your parents do and how well they do it"- wise for a 23-year-old. He mentioned specific values such as hard work and dedication.
For those of us with younger children, it can be instructive and inspirational to listen to young adults verbalize messages as Michael Phelps did. Picture your child in an interview with you at age 23. What would she say about her childhood and the messages that stood out for her?
