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Diapers to Dating

Coach Nancy shares thoughts and ideas on the trials and tribulations of parenting as she works as a parent coach and parents her own children ages 11,9,and 7. She shares some insights she has gained as a parent/coach as well as some funny stories.

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Food for Thought in Today's Economic Times

As the economy worsens, it seems food prices increase. One way to muddle through is to become savvier when it comes to grocery shopping. Just as with parenting strategies, or perhaps anything that we want to change in our lives, it takes a conscious effort to make and stick to changes.

The first step is to find an idea that really resonates with you. I, for one, am a big believer in making a weekly grocery list as opposed to shopping on the fly. It’s a big time and money saver. However, when I read the tip in this article about shopping a minimum of two weeks, I get a little overwhelmed. I don’t enjoy being in the kitchen for long periods of time, and the thought of making and freezing all of the food just doesn’t appeal to me. On the other hand, it would mean less time in the kitchen throughout the week which could be a big bonus. I need to think this one through a little more. For some, the commitment to shopping just once per week may seem a little overwhelming. Do we make the effort to change in order to save time and money? Is it worth it? Is it necessary?

After finding an idea that resonates with you, the next step is to find a way to engrain it into your routine. Perhaps the best advice that I received early on is that it takes 28 days to create a habit. In terms of weeks of creating a shopping list- maybe it takes about a month or two.

Once it becomes habit, enjoy the rewards and reap the benefits. When we can streamline to save time and money, it feels good. As times are tight, it is empowering to know that we can adapt and make positive changes. In the case of grocery shopping: minimizing waste, saving time and saving money.

In the meantime, we create teaching moments for our children. Many baby boomers will reflect upon the positive lessons learned by their parents as they survived the depression. Hard as it is, this time can create an opportunity to teach children financial responsibility through our example.

What works for you? Do you clip coupons?  Do any of you shop twice per month or less and pre-make and freeze food? Any other secrets to share?

 

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Posts about parenting as of March 22, 2009 said:

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March 22, 2009 12:01 PM
 

DHT said:

Creating a menu for the dinner meals works quite well for me.  With this I am better able to do the Sunday morning grocery shopping.  A bonus is that I'm less stressed during the day and can (a) easily answer my kids "What's for Dinner, Dad." and (b) jus tlook at the menu board for what to make.

March 23, 2009 9:30 AM
 

Coach Nancy said:

Good point. I agree. It can be stressful at that time of day anyway, and not knowing what's for dinner can add to the stress. Also, kids can even help plan the menu--helpful for picky eaters.  Sometimes plans change, and I'll just shift that meal to another day.

What does your menu board look like? I just rip off a page of a calendar and use that, but am interested in your menu board.

March 23, 2009 9:49 AM
 

DHT said:

There are only about 25 different dinners that I cook.  As a male and an engineer, I put those 25 different dinners on magnets, stuck them to the fridge, then each Saturday move the magnets around . . . and next week's menu is made.  There are another 25 or so magnets for the sides.  After that, I highlight the standard grocery list that I have for the items that I need for the next week ( <a href="orangeshirtguy.com/for_a_comment_on_my_parenti.html">See This Linkt</a> for a picture).

March 23, 2009 2:38 PM
 

DHT said:

Or just click this corrected link (darn html!&#)

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March 23, 2009 2:49 PM
 

Coach Nancy said:

What a great idea!! I could really see the kids getting involved in something like this too.  New magnets--replace the ABCs with Grilled Cheese :).

March 23, 2009 3:45 PM
 

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About Coach Nancy

Parent Coach and mother of three
Beech Acres Parenting Center

Coach Nancy has a master’s degree in social work, and has been working with children and families for over 10 years. In the school setting, her experience includes conducting conflict resolution and anger management classes for first through seventh graders. Working together with school professionals, she strives to use all resources available to optimize each child’s school experience.

In the hospital setting, she has worked with children who have cancer and their families to help them manage their emotions, and to coordinate resources to deal with the challenges as effectively as possible.

When coaching parents, Nancy believes her most important experience comes from being a parent herself. Her parenting philosophy can be summed up with a quote from parenting expert Barbara Coloroso: “There is no one way to raise our children, but a path that we must find.” She believes in an approach that focuses on strengths while acknowledging and working through challenges. Often, the greatest learning experiences lie in the challenges.