It's been shown time and again that appreciating what children do right, rather than focusing on correcting what's wrong, is the most effective way to support their growth.  Use these certificates to provide visible recognition for your children's achievements.            

HINT: don't just wait for those giant accomplishments -- like straight A's or 100% on a test.  Reinforce your children's efforts.  For some children, having the courage to pick up the phone and order a pizza is a great step forward in their social confidence.  That's cause for celebration!  Maybe it's being assertive with a problem peer; maybe it's starting s school project two weeks ahead of time rather than waiting until the night before it's due.  Each of these represents important growth for your child.  Being able to appreciate the many achievements that make up an ultimate large success is one key to effective parenting.